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AUGUST 2018

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Notes From Friends

Hospice of the Valleys serves hundreds of patients each and every year. We honor them by sharing their stores. They remind us every day of the meaning and purpose in our work and that human connection is at the heart of the hospice experience

The following are notes Hospice of the Valleys has received from the families of patients that we have been privileged to provide hospice care.

"The compassion, kindness, thoughtfulness and dedication I personally witnessed during the care of my father by Hospice of the Valleys was no less than amazing. I will always be grateful for you and the love you showed our entire family."

"I assume God chose you for my mother because I couldn't have found better and more loving caregivers. My mother loved you dearly. Thank you for being there in her final days. You are all amazing."

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Will You Remember Me?

By: Dr. Lynn Euzenas

Director of Spiritual Care & Bereavement Services

Dr. Lynn Euzenas - Hospice of the Valleys"I will remember you..., will you remember me?"

Sarah McLaughlan

As Hospice of the Valleys celebrates 35 years of serving our community, I realized with gratitude and pride that I have been providing spiritual care here for 15 of those 35 years. Reflecting upon this, Sarah McLaughlan's words rang in my ears. I do remember you...how could I forget? In 15 years a chaplain visits a lot of people. We who do hospice work say that our hospice patients give more to us than we could ever give to them. I cannot forget what I have been given: life-changing and profound moments of intimacy and life lessons of immeasurable worth.

As I remembered, pages of names and memories flooded in. I see the grin of an elder her face covered in blue icing, enjoying her birthday cake. I see the creased and worn leather of a recliner chair in a quiet corner of one man's home, where he opened scrapbooks from "the War", and in a weakened voice, became a living witness to history. I saw the true nature of freedom on a patient's face who looked up in amazement and said, "This is the first time I have been out of pain in 6 years." I will never forget the quiet form of a woman, wrapped in a blank like a child, her long pony tail braided down the pillow. Her only response to months of chaplain visits was a final tear down her cheek, upon hearing the Lord's Prayer.

I have seen the depth of love of 67 years of marriage, exchanged in glances over held hands. I can't forget the comical sight of a large state trooper's hat on the tiny head of a 104 year old woman, as she was honored as the community's eldest citizen by the mayor in her home. And there was no more wide a smile as when a gentleman let the needle drop onto an LP as it played the drum solo in an iconic jazz standard. He quietly proclaimed, "That's me."

Some patients have been my life teachers, stretching my heart and mind with their wisdom. I will never forget the imprint of a woman's hands as she reached up to hold my face, and say "Thank you, you have learned well." I will always hear the wild laughter of another who said, the week before her death, "If anyone ever told me I'd be believing in God! ..., Guess I got it in just in time."

15 years...and how could I Forget? I leave you with a promise which I made, and have kept. A patient recounted how she had previously had a near death experience. It was, by her account, so profoundly beautiful that she did not want to return to this life. But she did, to pass on a message. She entreated me to tell all of my patients and families who might ask, fearful of the unknown, "What comes next?" She said to tell them, "It is beautiful beyond belief, and there is nothing to fear, you will be amazed."

Loving kindness - it does a body good!

Dr. Leslee B. Cochrane

Executive Medical Director

Dr. Leslee Cochrane - Hospice of the ValleysHave you ever read the poem "All I really Need to Know I learned in Kindergarten"? When I was in Kindergarten we would celebrate Valentine's Day at school with simple acts of kindness such as making heart shaped cards for our moms and exchanging cookies, candy and card with our fellow classmates. I remember how fun it was to deliver the cards to my friends and see the look on my Mother's face when she opened up the card I had made for her. Although I did not know it at the time, there is a powerful connection between acts of kindness and our well being.

There is a growing body of scientific evidence which shows that performing random acts of kindness is good for your health. In one long term study, participants who served as long term volunteers experienced a 44% reduction in their death rate compared to a non-volunteer control group. That suggest that volunteering provides a greater benefit to your health than exercising four times per week! Although science is still attempting to unlock the mystery behind this phenomenon, we have found new links between certain brain chemicals such as dopamine, endorphins, and oxytocin which account for some of these benefits.

Oxytocin, which is sometimes referred to as the "love hormone" is released by the brain when you perform acts of loving kindness. It is believed that the bonding which occurs when you reach out to help another person may trigger the release of oxytocin which is responsible for a long list of beneficial effects. A recent study published by researchers from Ohio State University and Wake University demonstrated that people who practice loving-kindness meditation had significantly lower stress levels and heart rates. You might also be interested to know that this hormone also plays an important role in human bonding and intimacy. So if you want to live a longer, happier and healthier life I suggest you practice random acts of kindness each day.

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